Today, June 21st, marks the 2013 Summer Solstice;
that’s a fancy way of saying the start of summertime. With this longest day of the year, comes the beginning
of the school break, lazy backyard afternoons, pool parties, sunburn, baseball,
mosquitoes, and of course, vacations.
I took a college course one time on “urban planning and
cities
as an environment.” No, I have no
idea why; easy elective I guess. I was
living in Saint Petersburg, Florida at the time, a mere two hundred yards from
the Intracoastal and the bridge to the beaches.
One topic of the class was “vacation mentality” and the difference between
our regular lives and our recreation lives.
It was an interesting exercise discussing the leisured attractions that surrounded us while we
were busy supporting a family, earning a living, paying bills/taxes/tuition,
and fighting with the horrendous Pinellas County traffic.
When my tolerance for the good Florida lifestyle reached its breaking point, I moved from one
tourist destination to another, here in the Smoky Mountains of North
Carolina. I vowed that this time life
would be different, and to a point it is.
I restructured my priorities and my consumptive tendencies and am
finally able to live a much less stressful life, work from home, and even enjoy
the smell of roses once in a while (actually, I just planted them this spring
-- so, no blooms to smell yet).
Even with fewer stressors to battle each day, I still can
feel the difference between vacation and work.
Last week I was in the bathroom preparing to get in the shower, I looked
at the Jacuzzi tub and thought, “We’ve
been in this house for nine months, I ought to try that thing sometime.” I didn’t, I needed to get washed, dressed and
start my workday. It brought to mind
some friends of ours (NOTE: ours is a
reference to BOTH me and my wife -- there Shirle, I mentioned you in the blog
again) and how after they had followed us here from the Humid Peninsula of Palmetto Bugs, they built a log cabin high on a
mountain top. It was purposefully
designed with a two seat Jacuzzi in their master suite because whenever they
came to the mountains on vacation, they always
took baths together. From what I
understand, in the six years they’ve lived here, a double occupancy has yet to
be tried. By the way, they are retired
and financially comfortable, so work
is not the obstacle; it’s the mindset.
There really should be some way to meet in the middle; to
live and vacation simultaneously. Shirle
(two mentions!) has been bugging me
about taking some long weekends and getting away for some leisure time. People from all over the world come HERE to
do that, and she wants to get away. Mindset!
I don’t have the answer, so I’m open for suggestions if you
have any. In the meantime, have a happy,
safe, relaxed summer and take a vacation!
Now to get back to work…